August 28, 2010

...a short thought about dating

I don't really know how to even start this blog... but here it goes...
I feel I must preface this: I have never dated.
I don't believe in dating "just for fun" or "for a free meal." I believe one should really know the other person before they enter the World of Dating with each other. For any relationship to last, it must be founded on friendship and true unconditional love. Not "I love you (because I feel like I'm supposed to after a month of dating you)" but "I love you (and I want the best for you, even if that does not include me)." To reach this one must first know true love, for example please see GOD ie.John3:16... 'nuff said.

God created one Adam and one Eve,
not one Adam and five Eves
and then say, "hey Adam, why don't you just date around until you find the right one"

I am currently not dating due to ... well, to put it bluntly... life. College is hard enough as it is; I don't think my attention needs to be torn between studying chemistry and having chemistry with that cute guy on the other side of the room. To tell you the truth... it's not only college. I'm also not dating because I feel like I need to devote my whole heart to God before it's ready to give to a man. Sounds pathetic right? Well, I don't think so. It is extremely hard to wholeheartedly love a God I can't physically see or even hug; but I'm determinded.

If any gentlemen are reading this and would like to date me, please see the receptionist on your way out of the office (he is the burly man with the Ugly Stick known as my dad... pictured below).